With my eldest daughter, Eva, and I it wasn't always plain sailing. In the beginning, before she was diagnosed it was testing to say the least, just getting her to focus was hard. We didn't know what was going on with her. Back then we had no idea about ADHD and we certainly did not suspect that the whole family was somewhere on the ADHD spectrum! What a long way we have come together as a family since she was diagnosed over 7 years ago now. I feel so grateful to have stepped on to this path to greater understanding, to knowing what feels right, feeling confident in our parenting style and learning what patience and knowledge of ADHD can do to improve our dynamic. Eva has been a great inspiration in this process. She has taught me so much. I want to share with you our video where we are discussing the journey. Grab yourself a well deserved hot drink and have a watch. I guarantee you'll feel nourished (and that's not because I'm her mum - my assistant pushed me to share this with you all).
Shine Bright, Lyrics by Eva Camilleri
I know sometimes it's hard
To pass the forest of scars
Know that I’ve got your back
Don't feel like you're being chased case you're not
Believe me I know what you're going through
I see you, I see you
I won't give up
On you I won't give up
On me too
We will be strong together
We'll find our way
I won't give up
On us
It's ok to be different from the rest
Be brave no matter what the test
Believe me I know what you're going through
I see you, I see you
I won't give up
On you I won't give up
On me too
We will be strong together
We'll find our way
I won't give up
On us Oo oo, Ah ah …
We can do anything
We put our minds to
I won't give up
On us
Friends & Family "It's alright to cry at times, we can't control how we feel all the time"
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